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I like to take control : most gay men enjoy getting fucked. Getting fucked doesn’t mean that you have no control or reponsibility. Express yourself / GMFA, MetroM8, London Gay Men’s HIV Prevention Partnership. In copyright. Source: Wellcome Collection.
I like to take control : most gay men enjoy getting fucked. Getting fucked doesn’t mean that you have no control or reponsibility. Express yourself / GMFA, MetroM8, London Gay Men’s HIV Prevention Partnership.
“I think gay men can get a hard time when it comes to sex. I think there is a time and a place for sex to be taken seriously and understood. I also think that between consenting adults, sex should be whatever they wish it to be. Sex is fun, as long as it’s safe,” says McDaid.
Kevin McDaid: ‘Gay men get a hard time when it comes to sex’
I’d like to stand on the side of reality and assure you that men, like all other creatures with feelings, can feel waves of anxiety, or even be outright terrified by sex. Specifically, if a woman takes the sexual lead, be it at a bar, on a date, or in bed, we can and do get nervous sometimes. Why? Well, consider the situation: Oh, hello, lady I met four hours ago. You have me shoved me against a wall, put your tongue down my throat, and reached into my pants. Um…don’t you see those three busboys staring at us? And wouldn’t this be more comfortable in my dimly lit studio with my make-out mix in the background?














